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Every travel I’ve embarked on has transformed me in ways I could never have anticipated. From the bustling energy of city streets to the tranquil beauty of nature, these experiences have imparted invaluable lessons about life, self-discovery, and resilience.
Travel is a unique personal experience which is not a one-size-fits-all affair. Some focus on capturing social media moments, while others aim to visit bucket list destinations or seek a new or fresh perspective about “whatever”. Additionally, there are those who travel to “keep up with the Joneses” These diverse motivations enrich everyone`s overall travel experience. (a category we’ll explore later).
You may wonder what drives my passion for traveling. Of course, the stunning landscapes, delectable cuisine, (I am a foodie) and the moments that make me feel in harmony with my environment are all significant. But, what truly resonates with me—are people and their rich cultures. When I embark on a journey, I seek to engage with locals, hear their stories, understand their lives, and form connections that go beyond the surface. It is in those genuine interactions, those enlightening discussions that offer insights beyond any guidebook, that I truly uncover the enchantment of travel.
I feel fortunate to have seen and experienced the world, but certain places have remained etched in my memory
One such place was Malta. As a Kenyan, I always viewed —our habits, values, and behaviours—as distinctly Kenyan and representative of Africa as a whole. However, in Malta, I noticed shared values and behaviours influenced by British colonialism. It wasn’t just the visible traces of British influence that stood out; it was the underlying mindset—the values, expressions, and even the mannerisms—that had become ingrained in both our cultures. Over 50% of the items in supermarkets appeared remarkably similar. One cannot make this stuff up. Malta served as a poignant reminder that what we consider “normal” or “authentic” often arises from larger historical narratives, highlighting the interconnectedness of our experiences as former British colonies. In truth, history significantly reshaped my mindset during my stay in Malta.
New Orleans isn’t just a place —it’s a feeling, a heartbeat. Born at the crossroads of cultures — African, French, Spanish, Creole etc, this city tells a story of resistance, rebirth, rhythm and a good Kitchen. In New Orleans, music is not just sound — it heals, it calls you in, no matter where you’re from. It reminds us we’re all part of something bigger, something louder, something beautifully human. While enjoying the food and good music, strangers turn into family. The joys of its people, connects us across borders, cultures, and appearances, acting as a universal language that continually reminds us of our shared humanity. My name is Shiro and I ❤️ Orleans.
The bustling streets of Kathmandu, when contrasted with the serene nature of its people, truly amazed me. Having a mind that is perpetually busy (I have an article about my struggle with Anxiety), I could never fully grasp the concept of meditation. I admired those who could do it, but it just wasn’t working for me. However, Nepal had a different plan for me. When I arrived in Kathmandu, I had no expectations. I longed to unwind, go trekking, enjoy the cuisines and experience the breathtaking beauty of the Himalayas. My itinerary was planned, but what I encountered was something unexpected: Tranquility. I discovered that meditation isn’t about imposing stillness on a restless mind; rather, it’s about welcoming stillness when it chooses to arrive. In its unique way, Nepal taught me that we often search for peace in all the wrong places. Sometimes, it’s not about changing our surroundings but rather about transforming how we engage with these “busy and loud “ surroundings.
Johannesburg was a whirlwind. I had the time of my life at Katzy’s. The food and the fun vibe was just what I needed. The whole night felt like we were making up for lost time. I’m still not entirely sure if it was the post-COVID energy, after the Covid restrictions? I just know ( ich “ließ es Krachen”! (I let ma hair down).
But it was in Cape Town, where I fulfilled a significant item on my bucket list: visiting Robben Island. The experience was profoundly moving yet undeniably traumatic. Standing in the very cell where Nelson Mandela endured so many years ago, I could feel the weight of history surrounding me, each step resonating with the struggles of those who fought for freedom everywhere in this planet.
It was difficult to avoid a blend of sorrow and appreciation, recognizing the immense resilience required to endure such severe conditions. Despite the emotional intensity, I felt truly thankful to have experienced this pivotal moment in history firsthand. The juxtaposition of Cape Town’s beauty and the island’s sobering reality lingered in my thoughts long after my visit.
Let us be real for a sec. now. Some people don’t travel to explore — they travel to judge. You know the type: they book a flight across the world just to announce that “the Wi-Fi is slow” , “Why the natives do not speak their language” and “the coffee doesn’t taste like back home.” They’ll stand in front of the Eiffel Tower and say, “I thought it would be taller.” These are the folks who find the one fly in the soup — and then write a three-paragraph Yelp review about it. The irony? They leave paradise with a suitcase full of complaints and a carry-on of missed experiences. Travel is meant to expand your world — not give you new things to whine about.
So Madam Traveller. “How was your holiday?”
“Just the right question, I may need a Grievances form”
Each country has its unique rhythm—and that’s part of what makes traveling exhilarating! By leaving your ”normal” behind and embracing new customs, you may achieve a “richer” experience, filled with unlearning, relearning, patience and accomodating.
( what do you think?).
I have encountered numerous disappointments, frustrations, and grievances throughout my travels, including quite a few in my mamaland. It’s absolutely acceptable to express your concerns and tackle issues as they come up. However, let us not go overboard! 🤣
You and I know exactly what I am talking about 👆🏿.
With feelings, clarity, and a little chaos. Come read what’s on my mind.👉🏿
What does travel mean to you? Have you experienced issues while travelling? Let us all meet at the comments box and share